Full disclosure: I wrote, published and deleted this few days ago but then realized that’s goes against the whole fu(king point of the post.
We’re all messy, we’re all busy and we all have sh*t going on, past histories and unwritten futures. I think the biggest piece of bullsh*t is that we are too busy. Especially too busy for ourselves, not the ‘what in it for me?’ outlook but ‘Am I enjoying this? questioning. Sure sometimes it’s true. I have def used this in honestly and fabrication. In fact I’m writing this from dinner to party. Point being, if you want to do something then the time will be made. That’s not to say being too busy is a lie, I think it’s a time to recaluate what you want, and what matters to you. The question could be asked, ‘Don’t we all want the same things? ‘ Absolutely not. Of course love & happiness is at the base of every answer, but not everyone gets there the same way. Some folks demand more attention, some want one on one time, some individual freedom and space. Umm Hello, bestseller languages of love. The truth is define what matters in your heart. This is true in all aspects of life, define what you want first. If you can’t define it then you have no idea what you are searching and reaching for. Yes, I need this lesson too. So, Come Fly with Me!